Much meaning can be conveyed,clearly,with our eyes,so it is often said that eyes can speak.
Do you have such kind of experience?In a bus you may look at stranger,but not too long.And if he is sensing that he is being stared at,he may feel uncomfortable.
The same in daily life.If you are looked at for more than necessary,you will look at yourself up and down,to see if there is anything wrong with you.If nothing goes wrong,you will feel angry toward other’s stare with you that way.Eyes do speak,right?
Looking too long at someone may seem to be rude and aggressive.But things are different when it comes to stare at the opposite sex.If a man glances at a woman for more than 10 seconds and refuses to avert his gaze,his intentions are obvious,that is,he wishes to attract her attention,to make her understand that he is admiring her.
However,the normal eye contact for two people engaged in conversation is that the speaker will only look at the listener from time to time,in order to make sure that the listener does pay attention to what the former is speaking,to tell him that he is attentive.
If a speaker looks at you continuously when speaking,as if he tries to dominate you,you will feel disconcerted.A poor liar usually exposes himself by looking too long at the victim,since he believes in the false idea that to look straight in the eye is a sign of honest communication.Quite the contrary.
In fact,continuous eye contact is confined to lovers only,who will enjoy looking at each other tenderly for a long time,to show affection that words cannot express.
Evidently,eye contact should be done according to the relationship between two people and the specific situation.
可以传达意义,显然,与我们的眼睛,所以人们常说,眼睛会说话。
你有过类似的体验吗?在公共汽车上,你可能会看着一个陌生人,但时间不会太长。,如果他感觉到他被盯着,他可能觉得不舒服。
在日常生活中是相同的。如果你是看着超过必要的,你会看自己,你看看有什么问题。如果没有出错,你会感觉愤怒的向对方的盯着你。眼睛说话,对吗?
太长了看有人似乎是粗鲁和侵略性。但事情是不同的时候盯着异性。如果一个男人在一个女人超过10秒钟,目光拒绝他的视线,他的意图是明显的,也就是说,他想引起她的注意,让她明白,他是欣赏她。
然而,正常的眼神交流了两人参与对话,演讲者将只会看看听众不时,为了确保听众注意前是什么说,告诉他,他是细心的。
如果说话者说话时看着你不断,如果他试图控制你,你就会感到不安的。可怜的骗子通常暴露自己通过受害者太长时间,因为他相信错误的想法,直视的眼睛是诚实的沟通。恰恰相反。
事实上,持续的眼神只是局限于情侣,谁会喜欢温柔的看着对方很长一段时间,言语无法表达的爱意。
显然,眼神的交流应该根据两个人之间的关系和具体情况。
