nowadays many parents have a common sense that their children are so precious to them so they always try their best to give their children a happy and meaningful life. therefore, an increasing number of parents spoil their children and do everything for them, even control their life. for example, many children have to obey their parent' s idea about which school they should go into after they graduating; some children must go to art class like dancing, piano and paint even though they have no interest in them; what' s more, some strict parents even involve children' s freedom about what friends they should make. on one hand, these parents care and protect their children, however, on the other hand they may do harm to their children.
as far as i am concerned, in is necessary that parents should give their children more space and freedom so that their children may become more independent. for instance, children could do something they like, so they may be much more active and responsible. what' s more, it is also a good way to let their children study in a boarding school for children must face something by their own, such as, their relationship with friends and student, their study and busy life and so on. a good case in point, parents may encourage their children to take part-time jobs during summer or winter holiday. by doing this, i believe, these children may become more independent, brave and responsible.
in summary, spoiling children is no right. parents should know better that an independent, responsible and brave person is able to adapt society better.
parents love their children by nature, where chinese mothers and fathers are no exceptions. chinese parents tend to dote on their children because each family is allowed to have only one kid due to birth control. they place too much hope on the treasured child that if he wants the star, they might even climb to pick it. for self-centered, the spoiled children depend on their parents for everything. as a result, once confronted with harsh reality, they are more likely to yield to hardships and difficulties in life.
the problem of spoiling children has been common these days.with the development of economy and technology,the quality of life has become better and better.as a result,children today are experiencing more and more enjoyment.their parents will give me unlimited allowance to satisfy them so as to encourage their children to study harder.consequently.children are turning in to "little princesses" and "little princes" in today's society.this is definitely not the outcome we would love to see.since children are going to be the future of our society,it is important to train them to develop a sense of independence as well as responsiblity rather than laziness.parents should realize the seriousness of this problem soon and start to take actions to rescue their children.otherwise,our society will eventually move towards a direction that everyone doesn't want to face.
